Tired of being rejected at Korean BBQ restaurants? It's not you, it's the math. Master the 'Two-Portion Rule' and discover the best solo-friendly BBQ
Welcome back to Dodo's Real Seoul.
Today, we are talking about the biggest fear for solo travelers in Korea: "Solo Dining Anxiety." 😨
You are walking down a street in Hongdae. You smell the charcoal. You hear the sizzling pork belly (Samgyeopsal). You are starving. 🥓
You walk into a restaurant, hold up one finger ("One person"), and the owner looks at you like you just asked to eat her dog. She crosses her arms in an "X" shape and shoo-s you away. 🙅♀️
You stand on the street, hungry and rejected. You think, "Is it because I'm a foreigner? Is it racism?"
No. It is capitalism. 💸
Stop taking it personally. Eating alone in Korea, especially BBQ, is a strategic game. If you don't know the rules, you will end up eating cup noodles in your hotel room.
Here is the Myth vs. Reality of solo dining in Seoul.
The Reality Check: Why They Hate Solo Diners
Before you get angry, look at it from the owner's perspective. In the US or Europe, you pay for the food. In Korea, you pay for the table.
The Table Math: A BBQ table usually seats 4 people. If you sit there alone, they lose 3 customers. 📉
The Charcoal Cost: Setting up the fire (Charcoal/Gas) costs the same whether it's for 1 person or 4 people. Plus, all the side dishes (Banchan) are free and unlimited.
The Result: If you order one $12 portion of pork, they are losing money just by letting you sit there.
So, they are not being rude. They are just protecting their margins. But don't worry, Dudu has the cheat codes. 🎮
Myth vs. Reality: The Solo Dining Breakdown
Let’s smash the misconceptions that Reddit users cry about every day.
| The Myth | The Reality | The Solution |
|---|---|---|
| "Rejected because I'm a foreigner." | Rejected because it's Peak Time (7 PM). | Go from 2:00 PM - 5:00 PM (The Dead Zone). |
| "2 servings is too much food." | 2 servings = 300g (0.6 lbs). Normal steak size. | Just order 2 servings. Treat yourself. 🍖 |
| "Everyone is looking at me." | Nobody cares. They are looking at phones. | Put on headphones & watch Netflix. 🎧 |
| "No solo BBQ places." | "Hon-gogi" places are popping up. | Search for specific chains (List below). |
Strategy 1: The "Rich Tourist" Move (Money Talks)
If you want to go to a famous, crowded BBQ place (like the ones you saw on Instagram), you only have one option:
"Order for Two." ✌️
Walk in with confidence. Do not hold up 1 finger hesitantly. Walk in, sit down, and immediately say: "Two servings, please. (Du-in-bun Ju-se-yo)"
The owner’s frown will turn into a smile.
Why this works: You are paying the "table rent."
The Downside: Yes, it is more expensive. You are paying double. But is it worth $30 to experience authentic K-BBQ? Absolutely.
Pro Tip: If you can't finish the meat, just leave it. Or ask for a "Doggy bag" (though you can't cook raw meat in your hotel). But honestly, 300g of pork belly is easy work for a traveler who walked 20,000 steps that day. 🏃♂️
Strategy 2: The "Bar Seat" Haven
Some BBQ places have "Bar Seating" (Counter seats) specifically for solo diners or couples. Here, you don't take up a 4-top table, so the owners love you. ❤️
The Golden List (Solo-Friendly Places): (Note: Always check Google Maps for the latest status; places close down fast)
1. Yook-jeon Sik-dang (육전식당) - Sinseol-dong Branch
Vibe: Famous for "neck meat" (Mok-sal).
Why: They grill it for you. If you go at off-peak hours (3 PM), they are usually cool with solo diners if you order 2 portions.
2. Hongo (혼고) - Haebangchon
Vibe: Literal "Solo BBQ" bar.
Why: It is designed for you. Small personal grills. No judgment. 🍺
3. Gogiban (고기반) - Various Locations
Vibe: Casual solo dining sets.
4. Department Store Food Courts (The Secret Weapon)
Go to the Hyundai Seoul or Lotte Department Store basements. They often have "shabu-shabu" or "steak on a hot stone" places designed for single eaters. It’s not the gritty street vibe, but it’s safe and delicious.
Strategy 3: The "K-BBQ Buddy" App Hack
Still too scared to eat alone? Use technology. 📱
There are apps and communities where travelers look for dinner mates.
Reddit: Post on r/KoreaTravel: "Anyone want K-BBQ in Hongdae tonight? I'm paying for the first Soju." You will get a reply in 10 minutes.
Meetup App: Look for "Seoul Foodie" groups.
🗣️ Essential Survival Phrases
Don't use Google Translate at the door. It’s too slow. Memorize these.
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"Hon-ja-eyo?" (Are you alone?)
→ The owner asks this. -
"Ne, Hon-ja-eyo." (Yes, I am alone.)
→ Your answer. -
"Du-in-bun Ju-se-yo." (Give me 2 portions, please.)
→ The magic password to get a seat. ✨ -
"Gwaen-chan-a-yo." (It's okay.)
→ Use this when they try to warn you that "It's too much food." Just smile and say this.Final Verdict
Eating alone in Korea is not weird anymore. The trend of "Hon-bap" (Eating alone) is growing among young Koreans, too.
The only barrier is the "Minimum Order." 🚧
Once you accept that you have to buy two tickets to ride the BBQ rollercoaster, the whole city opens up to you.
Don't let a grumpy owner ruin your night. Buy two portions. Eat like a King. Regret nothing. 👑
(Next time: Why Korean coffee shops have "No Kids Zones" and why you might actually love them.)
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